Why is screening important in dominant–submissive relationships?

Screening helps ensure compatibility, consent, and psychological alignment. Through structured tests, conversations, and scenario-based questions, both sides can avoid misunderstandings and unhealthy expectations.

Can someone be trained to become submissive?

True long-term dominance and submission dynamics work best when submissiveness is an innate trait. Forcing or training someone against their natural disposition often leads to instability and dissatisfaction.

What role do BDSM tests play in partner selection?

BDSM tests provide insight into preferences, boundaries, and psychological tendencies. They are not definitive on their own, but they help create an initial character profile before deeper evaluation.

How Do Submissive Women Find a Dominant Master? A Real Screening and Selection Process

Q: How do submissive women find a dominant master?

Many submissive women discover dominant men through their writings, guides, and openly expressed views on dominance, sexuality, and power exchange. These texts often act as a natural filter, attracting only those who resonate deeply with such dynamics.

When Did You Realize You Were Dominant? How Did Your Dominant Personality Shape Your Relationships?

I have been fully dominant and possessive since childhood. From an early age, it was clear that leading and taking control was simply part of who I am. This natural inclination has shaped how I interact with others, and over time, I came to understand that my relationships work best when they align with my intrinsic master–slave dynamic.

So how do they find you?

They read my writings about sexuality, my guides, my fantasies that resemble harsh erotic literature, and similar content, then they reach out via message or email. Online alone, I have over 8,000 writings on topics such as science, art, sports, economics, and finance, yet perhaps only 50 to 100 of them are about sex, and sex at an extreme level. A portion of those who read these inevitably want to meet. During the getting-to-know phase, I usually manage to make most of them give up.

Screening and BDSM Tests

For example, women who want to be with me (my submissive slave, my personal whore, my servant, my assistant, and so on) are first given a BDSM test, and I analyze the results. Those who pass the first screening are then subjected to tests I designed around questions that matter to me. This way, by knowing their submissive / slave / masochist / degradee / rope bunny / pain slut scores, I have a clear picture of their character and avoid surprises.

Trial Period and Relationship Dynamics

After that, of course, I question them through online conversations. Much like a human resources specialist, I quickly get to know them by asking how they would react in specific situations, what they would prefer, and how they would decide in possible scenarios. Over the years, through certain activities I pursued as a hobby, I have developed this skill.

Ultimately, a trial period begins with the most suitable possible person.

An important piece of advice

choose those who are that way by nature. Do not force anyone into a role, because from beginning to end, people do not fundamentally change.

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